Tuesday, 30 December 2008

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    By Jim Carrey, Steve Carell
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    Long Journey Ended

    Two years and nearly 2 months ago, I embarked on a journey that turned out to be a lot rougher in the beginning, a lot longer in the ending, and a lot more hard to end.

    When Tucker was born, I had no qualms about breastfeeding him.  I figured I had done this twice before (at length) and this would be no different.   I was in for a rude awakening.

    The first time I nursed him, I remembered I was laying down.  And, I was tired.  And, I wasn't really interested in seeing he had a good latch, taken he was a few minutes old and probably tired, as well.  So, it was more of a comfort thing for him at that point, I believed.

    I wish I had taken more interest in that first latch on.  I really and truly believe that it would have been a lot easier in the frequent subsequent nursings that would take place.

    That being said, I was in for 6+weeks of feeling like a washboard every time my son would latch on.  He would cry to eat and my entire being would tense up in fear of imminent pain.  We're talking crocodile tears, here, folks.

    The biggest part of this ordeal was this:  I felt like a failure.  I felt like a failure at something that was supposed to be easy.  At something I had done before.  At something I had extensive knowledge of.  At something I figured every woman should be able to overcome.

    Sid told me a few nights ago that he was at the point of making me stop and buy formula.  He would say to me, "You can stop if you want to."  And, I would tear up and say, "I can't!  I know too much about it!"  My post-partum and breastfeedingly educated brain would not let me not nurse my child.  I couldn't do it.  It wasn't happening.

    Finally, I had to sit down with my books and I said this, "Ok.  I have never nursed a baby before.  What do I do?"  And, I read the book.  That whole "funny" bit from So That's What They're For by Janet Tamaro.  Insert Breast A into Mouth B.  Seriously.  I had to go down the whole list of checkpoints when I'd latch him on.  And, I don't know what it was exactly, but we got over the hump, my sores healed, and we were good to go.  FINALLY!

    So, year one came and went and I was told I would have to wean at 18 months about a month before I would need to wean.  Tucker wasn't having any of this "weaning business" and he pitched fits.  And, we caved.  Everytime.

    Breastfeeding was not something he has ever been interested in giving up.  Ever.  He is very devoted to his source(s) of nourishment.  Committed.  ATTACHED.

    Year Two was coming up and I was told, "You. have. to. wean. him."  I did not want this child to throw a fit and make me feel like the worst mother in the world on his 2nd birthday.  But, I was ready to do it.  Sid said and it really was time.  I was prepped for a long night of crying.  I was prepped to get it over with.  I was nearly ready.

    And, Sid being the Mr. Steady that his is said, "You have to wean him soon, but go ahead and taper him off."  And, that's what this last (nearly) 2 months has been.

    It's finally down to "wean him this week".  And, I've had two nights of no nursing at all.  Let me tell ya, it's been hard.

    I'm ready to have that part of my body back, for myself.  I'm ready to no longer be the size I am.  I'm ready for some reduction from shrinkage of ducts.

    But, it's so hard to give up something you've done for 2+ years.  To just have it taken away.

    It's been easier than I thought it would be, so far.  He'll come up to me and nuzzle like he wants to nurse and it's like he remembers, "Oh, can't do that" and he'll be on his way or he'll readjust so we can still cuddle.

    I don't have anything to base this following statement on other than my three children, but I believe that breastfed babies are the snuggliest.  Maybe not.  But, I think they are.  They smell better, too.

    Anyway, Tucker will let me snuggle him at night and he'll drink his cup of water while he is waiting to be put to bed.  He'll go to bed just fine and go to sleep.  He won't crawl up with me and nurse when I'm not looking asleep.  He stays in his bed until morning when he'll crawl in bed with us and waller all over the place and I finally put him back in his bed, but he doesn't ask to nurse.  And, he gets up early because of that and asks for cereal.

    Things are going good.  But, I'm really going to look fondly on my memories of nursing Tucker.  It's been a long journey.  It's been hard.  It's been long.  It's been hard.  But, it has been a very rewarding experience.  And, I'm thankful I was indulged for this one.

    The end.

Tuesday, 22 July 2008

Tuesday, 29 April 2008

  • Cloth Diapering on Vacation

    It was my intent to exclusively cloth diaper on vacation.  I did not.  However, I did not exclusively use disposables, either.

    I had only six pocket diapers and I'm still not comfortable enough with wool (nor did all my cute little outfits allot for wool)...

    We started out on the trip with a BumGenius.  And, if I knew I wanted him to wear it for a while, I'd stuff it with an Indian Prefold.  But, most of the time, I just used the BG inserts.

    In the hotel, our shower head was not detachable, nor was the water pressure very strong.  I'm a diaper sprayer, so I wasn't too wild about this.

    Also, it took me forever to find the laundry facilities and I couldn't stomach the idea of putting his little diapers in those "nasty" machines.  It was only for 2.5 days and then we'd be at Mom's so when I was in the room for a while, we used IPFs and wool.  When I was out and about, he had on BG and I had 'sposies in the diaper bag, just in case.

    I was fortunate enough to only have one poopy cloth diaper and that was on the last day.  I had to do a toilet shake and I was glad it was the only one.  (except for at Mom's where she also had poor water pressure for spraying the diaper)...  He managed to poop in the 'sposies, every time.

    When his BGs were wet, I'd double rinse and wring with a hotel handtowel and let them air dry (which didn't take long at all).  I'd smell them before using (we're talking nose in the diaper) and they smelled fine, so we reused.

    I really brought way too many diapers, but I'm glad I brought too many than not-enough.
    I didn't even have to buy more disposables.  I had some left over when I last bought diapers on March 19. (I found the receipt the other day.)

    When I got to Mom's I was able to wash all the dirty diapers and I was good-to-go until we got home.

    So, I have to say that after only a month of cloth diapering, my first time away from home was pretty successful!

    To quote London Tipton, "Yay me!"

Thursday, 17 April 2008

  • How To Recycle A Gerber Prefold: Part 2

    I took some old hand towels and ripped the seams out of the ends and then ironed them flat.

    Then, cut them into fourths.  And, that makes our 'soaker'.

    I also washed and dried all the disassembled diapers so they would fray and shrink up (if they will) and then ironed them and folded them completely in half.  This is opposite to how they were originally folded.

    So, here we have our diaper flat and towel insert.
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    I laid the towel down the middle of the diaper and then stitched it to one side.
    I tried just folding the diaper down over the towel insert and it moves, so I want it to stay put.
    Towel is stitched in place and we fold the diaper back in half like we want it.
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    Then, I stitched around all four sides.  I did not turn under any seams or anything.  I'm leaving frayed edges and all.  I may, in the future, put bias tape around the outer edges, should the fraying get too bad, but for now, I'll leave it as is.

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    All done!

    Basically, I put something I believe to be more absorbent in the middle and I made the diaper just a bit bigger.

    Tip:  Use a ball point tipped needle for sewing this type of fabric.  It snags really easy.  And, I think my ball point was a tad too small, because it still snagged, but not half as much as it was before I switched to a ball point.

    Tucker is sleeping, so no diaper pic for this one.

  • How To Recycle A Wool Sweater: Part 2

    Make your own recycled wool longies from a sweater
    Remember the sweater? We left the top.
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    I cut the arms off and I made wool longies. (diaper cover/clothes)
    Cut along the inside seam of the sleeve to reach desired length.  You have to measure your child's rise and measure accordingly on the sleeves making sure to leave room for an elastic casing (...something I seem to forget EVERYTIME).
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    I used a pair of roomy sweats, and obviously, I didn't leave enough room for an elastic casing.  But, either use measure tape to measure your child or match it up to a pair of pants that fit to your satisfaction.
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    I used this for extra material for the elastic casing.  It's basically scraps at this point.
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    This is how I pinned the sleeves together to make the pants.
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    Pinned together, you can see the pants, now.
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    Turned back right-side out.
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    Made a casing (forgot to take pictures of it.  You just want something wide enough to hold your elastic.
    Pinned to the waist.
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    Sewed on.
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    Voila!  Longies!
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    Make your own recycled wool shorties from a sweater
    This was the rest of the turtleneck, I just cut it in half.
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    Then, I cut the half in half.
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    I pinned the uncut half of the turtleneck to these shorties.
    They look the same as the navy blue shorties I posted in the first part.
    I made these shorties without taking pix, so this site explains roughly how I made them.  I actually pieced two pieces from a sweater to make the big triangle.  http://www.borntolove.com/frugal-column2.html
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    Stitched that and then pinned the two pieces to the leg holes after stitching them along where they were cut.
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    Voila!  Shorties!
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    Make your own recycled wool wetbag

    I bought this J Crew sweatervest and didn't really know what I wanted to do with it.  I like the colors and so I just got it.  Besides, it was $1.55.
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    So, this is a thicker sweater, and I've been reading that you should use the thicker sweaters for wetbags.  So, that's what we're doing with this.
    I cut just under the arms where the sweater stops being the same length across.
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    And, just for kicks, I cut off the ribbing from the armholes and neck.  That ribbing is excellent for waistbands and legholes, alike.
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    All gone, and for kicks, I took off the seam connecting the front to the back.020


    I cut the sides and top off the back piece to make it straight-edged all around.  Just for kicks (it's easier to work with, that way)... and the scrappage was in minute amounts.
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    Ok, so what I did with the big piece I cut off was to turn it inside out, stitch along the orange edge.  Turned it inside out and then folded it in half and stitched around three sides.
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    This created a three-pocket bag.
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    Now, all it needs is some shoestrings for a drawstring.

  • Indian Prefolds

    I broke Sid down and he let me buy some Indian Prefolds from Little-Lions.com.   I got unbleached Premiums.  I think I may could get some toddler-sized, but I may wait a few weeks and see how I'm really liking these... and how the EC goes.

    This is what it looked like new.
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    One-washing... it was a rinse, wash cycle, dry.
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    2 wash cycles, dry
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    2 wash cycles, dry
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    You can see how it quilted up after the first washing.  They say to do 5-10 washes... and I count my washes as sufficient.

    I should have marked ONE diaper and only pictured it in the measurements, because the last picture diaper doesn't seem to have quilted much, but I assure you, the pictures are in order.

    I really love these diapers and I'm so glad to finally have more than 2 really good prefolds.  I want to shred the cheap ones... but I'm recycling my Gerbers.

    So, there you have it, Indian Prefolds.  If I can make it work, I'll do a thickness comparison of an IPF vs. a GPF.

Monday, 14 April 2008

  • Elimination Communication / Potty Learning

    I plan on posting a part 2 for my 2 latest posts... just wanted to keep you updated that there's more to be done with those 2 items.

    But, this isn't about that.  This is about EC= Elimination Communication.

    I have toyed with this idea for a while and I could have started from birth with Tucker.  I let questions and lack of knowledge hold me back.  I was over-complicating it.  It isn't complex at all... I don't think.

    But, I want Tucker potty trained soon.  And, I realize he is only 17 months old, but the less poop I have to deal with, the better my life is.

    So, the switch to cloth diapers was a half-step backward, in that I have to deal with poop more when cloth diapering.  More poop is ok with me, though, as long as I am no longer exposing his sensitive parts to toxins that are in disposable diapers.  And, there are toxins in there.

    So, cloth diapering means that I have to clean poop off the diapers because he is no longer exclusively breastfed and I don't want that stuff lingering in my washer.  I spray it off with my high pressure shower head and it goes down the bathtub drain.  And, I do a hot water rinse in the tub and spray with peroxide for sterilizing... and what have you.

    Cloth diapering also means it is more uncomfortable to sit in your own soil.  Who wants that, anyway?  I can tell when he's wet/poopy right away and we deal with it right away to get him used to always being dry.

    He has gotten to the point that he pees during a diaper change.  And, we've progressed to automatically sitting on the potty after a change.  So, he has peed in the potty a time or two.

    To take that up a notch, I have a foldable potty seat that sits on the actual toilet.  Like I said, the less I have to deal with, the better.  So, that means no potty chair, please.  It took me a few times to get him used to sitting up there and how I did was start him sitting on the lid with his diaper on while I was rinsing poop in the tub.  And then, I would sit him on the foldable seat in his diaper with the lid up, and then no diaper and directly over the hole.  Then, I wouldn't even know if he was using it, but he was sitting there and not crying... so he could relax, eventually.

    Now, we take him to the potty after changes.  And, by "we"  I mean "me" because Sid no longer changes diapers.  I think he likes it that way and I'm fine with it, also.  But, I do want him knowing how to use the Bum Genius for when I'm not around.  The Bum Genius is the closest thing to 'sposies because they work very similar in operation.  The difference is, you wash the Bum Genius.  But, all Sid has to do is stick it in the wool wetbag and he's good to go.  I do the washing.

    So, he pees on the potty and he went a full day Saturday of no poopies.  Which, had me worried, but that was fine, because during one of his pee-pee times on the toilet yesteday, he emptied out and we really praised him and told him what he was doing.  Names with actions is very important.

    I actually think this is potty learning?  I'm not sure.  There are many different terms for potty using vs. diapers when baby is not fully potty trained.

    I want to say that I don't feel that "I'm being trained" more than Tucker is.  He knows what pee-pee is and can do it when I say it.  I can tell even if he doesn't have to go, he is grunting and doing the 'action'.  Also, I don't think I'm being trained anymore so than I am trained to respond to a cry for food or pain or anything else.  Plus, Tucker is now old enough that he can actually talk some.  So, he isn't always crying for what he wants.  He points and feels his diaper when he pees in it.

    And, this is not something we punish for or get upset over.  We are simply putting (hopefully soon) the majority of bodily waste where it needs to go.  Which is, not in his diaper.  There are far less diaper changes for me and that's less laundry. LOL  And, less money I'm throwing down the drain on disposable diapers that I'm never going to see again and hopefully we waste even less money on pull-ups.  Those things are more expensive than diapers, but they essentially serve the same purpose. 

    So, hopefully, no more 'sposies at all and less work for me.

    And, with what I'm learning on Tucker, I can hopefully take it and apply to any and all future babies from birth.  Yay!!

Wednesday, 09 April 2008

  • How To Recycle A Gerber Prefold

    Wow, I'm feeling very 'green' with all this recycling business!

    Tucker woke up this morning and I had diapers in the washer that I put in before bed last night.  So, that meant we were to the low end of my diaper stash.  That means cheap prefolds.  Cheap prefold are cheap because they don't cost very much and because they are cheaply made.  They have no absorbency.

    Case in point:  I put a cheap prefold on Tucker.  He immediately peed (...and you think I'm crazy for doing Elimination Communication).  It went straight through his diaper and landed on the carpet.  And, this is not a small amount of pee... 

    I am so very tired of cheap diapers.  I have had it!  ... and I've been thinking about what I'd do with all the Gerber Prefolds I tie-dyed last year.  Because, I used RIT dye which apparently is not good for babies skin... who knew? (I didn't)

    So, I figured Goodwill, throw them away, something like that...

    Then, I was reading on Diaper Swappers about preflats from someone and I made preflats (those were the t-shirt diapers I took pix of on my other blog).  And, I figured, "OH! The material is still good, it's just the yucky insert! I can make preflats out of the Gerber prefolds... just take the yuck out! OOh!!"

    So, here is pic one.  I took a picture of the diaper.

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    Then, this shows you where I started to rip the seam out.
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    And, it took a really long time to rip out all the seams and the serging.  No way am I gonna do that on all __ diapers.  One was enough hassle.

    So, here we go again!
    Rotary cut the serging off...
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    See how many diapers?
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    See how many I had done at that point of picture taking?
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    Here's what I did after the cutting... I grabbed the middle like this
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    And I just RIPPED the seam all the way down.  It looked like this after I got it all turned inside out.
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    Then, I grabbed the other side like this
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    And, I just RIPPED all the way down again.  It was so fun!!  And, it looked like this
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    And, here's the trash pile
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    I ended up doing 13 and I'm saving the pretty blue ones for continued use of diaper rags (spit up catchers) until I decide if I like them this way.

    You know, it's like I told my Mom... I know when I'm thinking about the MOST absorbent thing in the whole world to place in the middle of a diaper so it won't leak... I automatically go to plastic fibers.  Yeah, I knew you did too.  Nice thinking, Gerber.  Really lucrative... for you.

    So, that's how to recycle a Gerber prefold.

    Oh, the prefold thing?  I think I'm just gonna double those up with a flat diaper (like Birdseye or bamboo) and fold them in half for a diaper for my toddler son, who is a heavy wetter.  I might take a picture of it when he wakes up.  

Tuesday, 08 April 2008

  • How To Recycle A Wool Sweater

    I bought this wool sweater at Goodwill today for $2.50.  You can buy custom made wool longies or shorties online for as much or more than $80.  $2.50 or $80?  I chose the previous.  (FWIW, the wool longies are well worth the money if you have it to spend... which I do not.  So, there are options for everyone. )

    If you take a wool sweater and cut it straight across under the arms, sew up the cut edge to make a 'bag' with the bottom of the sweater becoming the top of the bag, and then loop a shoestring through the knitting...
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    You may end up with a wool wet bag for your cloth diapers.  And, you could do it with some scrap material from another sweater and make a small one for the diaper bag.
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    Then, if you take the arms, cut them off on the sweater side of the seam, and then cut the cuffs off about a half to an inch from the ribbing and then cut the turtle neck off (turtle neck was a bonus feature for this sweater)...
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    Then, you could take some shorties you made from another sweater and felted and pin the cuffs to the leg holes...
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    And, cut 2 inches off the top of the turtle neck and pin it to the waistband...
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    *insert picture of the shorties pinned to the cuffs and waistband that I was certain I photographed before sewing*

    You would get a wool bum sweater for your son (or daughter)
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    And, since he's too busy to be photographed...
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    ...playing with his belly button...
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    ...you would need to wait until he's sawing logs to get a good picture of how they look on your son (or daughter).
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